UX & Speed Website Audit

I need a fresh, unbiased assessment of my site that focuses on how first-time visitors perceive it and on how quickly every page loads across modern browsers. I’m not looking for a surface-level opinion; I want clear, actionable insights.

Website: https://tonguefu.app

Please wrap everything up in a concise report that includes screenshots, numeric metrics, and prioritized recommendations so I can tackle fixes in logical order. If you can deliver a short loom video or similar to illustrate critical problems, that would be a plus.