Dating men and being scammed

I have been scammed not once but twice out of thousands by dating one man for a year taking £10,000 from me and vanishing leaving me in a financial mess but all so mentaly and physically in a mess too, I was on the brink of wanting to end mylife because of it, I was a total stranger to myself...... 6 years later.... as it too me so long to build myself up as a person.....I then meet another guy who has recently done the exact same!! Even tho I was honest and up front as to why I had been single for 6 years..... hes done the exact same to me! So he knew exactly what I had been through, Guys should not be aloud to just vanuish and block women just like that, I know women have been know to do this to I know its not just men, but I can't call him, I can't get hold of him on any social media FB, Instagram, pinintrest u name it ive tried it Im blocked in every kind of way possible, when I was still able to have contact vie Instagram I did message a couple of girls about him as i know something was goiing on with other girls (always trust ur gut feeling) turns out his ex was never an ex! but he managed to get to them before me and swing him his lies being the charmer that he is, so I then end up being blocked by them, so it looks as tho I'm the crazy one when im not, I've been nothing but up front and honest I have nothing to hide from at all, I just wish there were laws in place for this kind of thing I want to get my story out there to push for this, I now trust no one! I would like help to get this out there to help others especially if they are in contact with these men! I shall for ever be single at the age of 37 I have a good job, an amzing loving hard working family behind me, but yet the one thing I want in my life I'm ever going to have I want help to fight for some kind if law in place for this!! It can not keep happening