Paralegal specialist for divorce proceedings

Wife filed for divorce November 29, 2021, served me with papers 116 days later. I have very little time to file my response and counter, and I am retired on disability with a rather fixed income. Also going through a BK7 but have attorney representation for that (that’s where all my money went). I need someone to look at what I’m writing up and tell me if I’m doing it right, if I’m doing it complete, and if I’m doing anything that’s going to piss off the judge. Advice regarding timelines and although I know paralegals cannot provide explicit legal advice, pointing out anything in wife’s filings that could easily be challenged or is in error would be extraordinarily helpful.