TRC20 Deposit Integration - Self-Hosting

I run a custom PHP + MySQL website and need a fully self-hosted USDT (TRC20) deposit flow. Here is what the job entails: • Each user must receive an automatically generated, unique TRC20 wallet address. • A service written in the language of your choice should monitor those addresses—either through TronGrid or a locally synchronised Tron node—and detect confirmed USDT transfers in real time. • Once a transfer is confirmed, an SQL call must update the user’s available balance. you must be familar with crypto currencies to proceed