Arduino Relay Control Code

I need Arduino code to control 4 relays for different lighting patterns(maybe 3 different patterns) for a set amount of time with the push of a button. When the lighting patterns are not active I would need one or two of the relays to be activated. Also I need another button to activate a relay to drive a motor for a set amount of time when pushed.

Requirements:
- Control 5 relays
- Two buttons to activate
- Different lighting patterns when one button is pushed
- relay on for set amount of time when the other button is pushed, preferably without disturbing the other lights, is that possible? The relays are both no and nc.

Ideal Skills and Experience:
- Proficient in Arduino programming
- Experience with relay control
- Knowledge of lighting patterns